Hang on don't you three blokes also love a bit of salad-tossing? See I don't mind my missus taking a dirty bog with the door open nor dropping a dirty fart in front of me. In a way we often compete on how disgusting we can be (I always win of course) But I'm absolutely against salad tossing, I think it's horrific and nausea-inducing.
There's nothing wrong with a little anilingus, as long as she's taken a shower and she's clean. I'm all for salad tossing if it's me doing it. A girl did that to me once. Kinda surprised me at the time. I didn't enjoy it and at the same time I didn't hate it.